We can thrive, not just survive, dementia's journey. If you are reading this, someone close to you may be experiencing memory loss. Whatever form, whatever stage, I am saddened for you. There are many of us on this path. As caregivers, we can lean against this jagged edge, feel the hurt, and grow...nurturing the one we care about and ourselves. How? I will share ideas I am finding helpful.
WHY THIS SITE ?
- To offer effective, quick to implement tips which may help your loved one and you live safer. This is not a medical site. Find a COMPASSIONATE geriatric doctor for medical info and community resources.
- To give emotional support for care receivers and caregivers.
- To provide easily accessible resources.
When an "incident" occurs with one suffering memory loss- you hurt for them, yourself and family members. At the same time, you have to move rapidly with positive action helping them understand within their reality, and making them safe in their environment. For me (especially during independent living days), locating helpful information and products as quickly as needed has been challenging.
You may like support groups. Great - if they work for you and your family. Honestly, I haven't had the emotional energy at the end of the day to participate. There are many excellent websites, but filtering through them is lengthy. Books are helpful; however, many hold too much information to read rapidly during a crisis. Several short books, and well-produced DVDs and websites have addressed my needs by giving me quick ideas and effective words. Now, I can sleep at night without worrying about Mom's state of mind, her safety, and the safety of those around her.
These suggestions mix and match. You can find helpful ideas for different stages of dementia and for all accommodations- from independent living to memory care and skilled care units. Click pages on the right for speedy suggestions and resources. Check back often- more pages in the works.
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